Step 1

Click here to find out how many calories you use in a day – just sitting on your butt, you probably use anywhere from 2500 upwards easily.

Step 2

Eat less calories than you use. By eating 1000 calories less than you use a day you can loose 1lb in 4 days, or 1kg in 9 days!

Thats it, there’s no hardship. Dont stress yourself with carbs/protien/fat etc until you have those first 2 steps going ok. Once you can do the first two you can move on to worrying about the rest.
Contrary to popular belief, weight loss is not that hard, and you DO have the will power and self control. Forget waiting for ‘motivation’, if i waited for motivation i would have never lost anything!
A lot of people looking for weight loss hear the words ‘eat less and exercise more’, but what do they mean? How much less? of what foods? how much exercise? what kinds?

You will learn to understand weight loss how other diets work and why others fail.

It will not cost you a cent, nor will i sell you anything. All it takes is for you to spend a few minutes reading.

Liz Q

Okay so if you made a hole in the balloon the same size as the one that the water is going in, then the water goes in, and then water goes out at the same rate leaving the balloon the same size, are you with me?

So if you turn the tap harder, the balloon cannot get rid of the water as fast as its going in, so it gets bigger again. And if you turn the tap down to a trickle the balloon is going to get smaller, right?

Okay, your body is the balloon. And food is the water. If you put in more energy than you are using, your body is going to be fat.
Food is energy. You can measure it in Kjoules or Kcal (commonly refered to as Calories).

This is the very basis for ALL weight loss. You can do any diet you want, with any gimmicky name. But unless your energy in is less than energy out you will not loose weight. Understanding this means you can make up your own diets, or even eat whatever you want … SO LONG AS YOU KEEP THE CALORIES IN LESS THAN THE CALORIES OUT!

The average body uses about 2000 calories a day just being alive. Thats without exercise. Just sitting on your ass all day. If you’re over weight then you are going to use a lot more – maybe up to 3000-4000 for the fairly obese!
This is called your BMR. You can work out your BMR with this following formula

Metric BMR Formula

Women: BMR = 655 + ( 9.6 x weight in kilos ) + ( 1.8 x height in cm ) – ( 4.7 x age in years )

Men: BMR = 66 + ( 13.7 x weight in kilos ) + ( 5 x height in cm ) – ( 6.8 x age in years )

Imperial(US) BMR Formula

Women: BMR = 655 + ( 4.35 x weight in pounds ) + ( 4.7 x height in inches ) – ( 4.7 x age in years )

Men: BMR = 66 + ( 6.23 x weight in pounds ) + ( 12.7 x height in inches ) – ( 6.8 x age in year )

1. If you are sedentary (little or no exercise) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.2
2. If you are lightly active (light exercise/sports 1-3 days/week) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.375
3. If you are moderatetely active (moderate exercise/sports 3-5 days/week) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.55
4. If you are very active (hard exercise/sports 6-7 days a week) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.725
5. If you are extra active (very hard exercise/sports & physical job or 2x training) : Calorie-Calculation = BMR x 1.9

Once you have worked this out you are ready to start, and go to the next page.

3500 calories is equivalent to 1lb
9000 is 1kg in weight
This is when converted to body weight.

So if you were to use 2500 calories a day for your BMR, and sat on your ass all day, and then ate only 1500 calories a day, then in 9 days you would have lost 1kg. (Thats 1000 calories a day deficit for 9 days = 9000kcal = 1kg)

Easy huh? You can eat KFC, you can eat McDonalds, you can eat chocolate, and STILL loose weight!

Now the only problem is that by eating fattier foods you wont get as much food compared to other foods.

1g Carbs = 4 kcal
1g Protien = 4 kcal
1g Fat = 9kcal

Oh dear, now you’re seeing the problem

So if you were to eat say 3 weetbix for breakfast with milk
3 weetbix = 201 kcal
1 cup low fat milk = 100 kcal

Thats say 300 kcal for breakfast .. well thats not so bad. Pretty filling as well and it should kickstart your metabolism up so you end up burning more overall for the whole day.

Alternativly you could eat
2 regular slices toast = 120kcal
2 poached eggs = 100kcal
1 glass milk = 100 kcal

Thats only 320 kcal also, and its pretty filling and yummy.

So its not overly hard to live on a calorie controlled diet at all.
In fact if you take todays standerd foods, most of them are great until you hit things like mayonaise (200 kcal a tablespoon) or cakes (about 350-500 kcal a slice).

So you can actually eat a pretty filling diet, and still throw in the odd chunky sized chocolate bar (200kcal) and loose weight easily.
In fact some days ive had a salad (17kcal a cup) for lunch and ended up having so many spare calories i had KFC for dinner and STILL lost weight! , Be aware KFC advertise different calories on their site to what they actually contain. 2 pieces of KFC only contain 240kcal if you choose a drumstick and wing

Okay if this is sounding a bit hard to keep up with, try signing up at fitday and entering your food every day as you eat it.
It will tell you how much of what you are eating exactly and also spit out some fantastic graphs to track everything from nutriants to weight loss goals.

Okay, one more key thing to remember.
Girls, you MUST eat over 1200 kcal a day.
Guys, make it 1800 or more please!

If its 1 or 2 days below its not going to matter, but if you regularly eat under this amount your metabolism is going to go into starvation mode. This will cause everything to slow down and your body to suck in all the food it can.
You will not lose any weight whilst your body is in starvation mode! If you find you stop loosing weight try upping the calories a bit.

TAKE A MULTIVITAMIN!

I cannot stress how important this is with a restricted intake. Particularly females. Calcium and Iron intake will probably be low, this will leave you tired and grumpy and unwilling to stick with it.

Excuse me? What does this have to do with why my pants won’t fit?

A calorie is also the unit of measurement of energy produced by food when it is oxidized, or used, in the body. Calories are like fuel for our bodies. We need them for our bodies to run. But if we pump more fuel into our bodies than we need for the amount of activity we do, the excess fuel just sits there. Your body will store this excess, unused fuel. It may store it as muscle, if you perform enough physical, muscle-building exercises such as weightlifting, or it may store it as fat.

You need to maintain a balance between the amount of calories you take in (food) and the amount of calories you use (exercise). You “burn” your body’s fuel – calories – when you perform physical activities, and you also burn calories just by sitting still, breathing and living each day.

If you perform enough physical activity, you may increase the amount of calories (or energy units) you burn each day and raise the amount of calories (or energy units) you need each day. So a person who is physically active can eat more calories each day without gaining weight, because this person uses the fuel he or she pumps in, instead of storing it as fat.

Each person is different when it comes to the amount of calories he or she needs each day. The amount of calories a person needs for fuel varies according to age, height, gender, amount of physical activity and other factors.

Dont just do exercise in a gym, but try to take up some sports or make it part of your daily life (ie. going tramping on the weekend or playing a game of soccer with the family on the weekend).

The best way to choose things are by looking at what you did as a teenager, find what you loved or were good at and give that a go.

As for going to the gym, i cannot stress how much difference it makes. Lift weights – there will be a gym instructor who will show you what to do and when.
Ladies – you will NOT look like the terminator(see this article why not), females just dont get that big without a LOT of work. And to be honest, even if you did look like that, its a lot easier to get rid of muscle than fat

1kg of muscle burns 100 calories per day compared to 1kg of fat which burns 4. So by creating muscle you will loose even more weight faster, not to mention feel better for it.

When creating muscle you need to eat about 1-2g protein at least per kg of lean mass you have. So try to keep it about 100g.
Good sources of protien are Milk, Eggs, Meats etc.

Again, fitday can keep track of all this for you easily. If you have any trouble then try a Horleys Carbless Protein bar after a workout. It looks and tastes like chocolate

20 mins of the following burns …

Bicycling – Actual 300-400 calories
Squash – 300-400 calories
Running – 5-6 mph 300-350 calories
Swimming laps – 350 calories
Bicycling – Stationary 250-300 calories
Stair climber – 200-250 calories
Aerobics – 200-250 calories
Walking briskly – 150-180 calories <- this means breaking a sweat, not a sunday walk guys

You will soon find you naturally start selecting foods with less sugar and fat so you can feel more full. Heres a few items that helped me.

Sugar free lollies or mints, i always keep a packet spare for whenever i need them.

Low fat, sugar replaced yogurt. You can get a fair bit in for the calories and its pretty healthy.

Coffee and tea! not to much, but a good flat white gives me both protein and fills me up for a couple of hours (though it was hard to wean myself off the sugar). Soup has the same effect.

Sushi, nice low calorie yummy treat!

Order hamburgers without the Mayo or Cheese, you will save yourself a lot of calories.

Potato chips are only about 140 kcal per cup. If they are about then grab a couple so you dont feel deprived, just make sure you stick to only a handful.

Avacado – whilst it is good for you and does contain healthy fats, it is a very high calorie item. I generally ask for it to be removed from rolls or salads I have.

Nuts are similar to Avacado, they are nice however to put into a salad to give it a new taste. 1 Tablespoon = 200 Kcal though (these Kcal are from memory, i may be wrong so double check them)

I found If i did not drink enough water then i didnt loose as much weight, however whenever i had my period I would not loose any weight and the week following i would drop twice as much (water weight?)

Avoid Salty stuff, it tends to make you retain water (and therefore weight). Its also pretty bad for you

Sausages, Mince, anything processed. It tends to be made up of floor scroungings and has a lot of hidden fat. Try and stick to pure foods (Steak and Salad and Egg is agreat meal!)

Check out this website for some alternatives to your favourites http://www.hungry-girl.com/

Keeping your metabolism higher
Exercise:
Regular exercise is great, but dont be fooled, 3 20 minute workouts are just as good as 1 60 minute workout! If you do it in the morning you are less likley to talk yourself out of it and arrange to be busy. Try and get that heart rate up doing bikeing, skipping, or if you are really having trouble – swimming.

Meals:
Space your meals out so you’re eating 4-6 meals a day. It fools the body into thinking its eaten more than it has. Lots of water! Soup is a great low calorie way to fill up inbetween meals or you are waiting for dinner.

Diet Drinks, Scheduled Eating

We’re with you: Dieting is no picnic. But here’s a little secret — it’s not nearly as hard as most of us think. “A lot of women believe they need to change everything, but in reality small tweaks to your diet can make a huge difference,” says Dawn Jackson Blatner, RD, a spokesperson for the American Dietetic Association. We’ve got 21 absolutely painless little fixes, culled from the latest research and the country’s leading weight-loss experts, to make dropping those pounds as easy as 1, 2, 3, and beyond.

1. Say So Long to Soda
Every diet soft drink consumed each day could increase your risk of being overweight by 65 percent, according to a study presented at the American Dietetic Association. Other research suggests that artificial sweeteners may actually stimulate appetite, causing you to overeat. Instead, sip plain or sparkling water with lemon added for flavor.

2. Eat Like Clockwork
Women who eat erratically consume more calories and burn them less quickly than those who have six regular small meals each day, according to a British study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition. Don’t go more than three or four hours without eating something.

3. Become a Tea-Totaler
Green tea not only has about half the caffeine of coffee but also contains catechins, which may boost your metabolism. A recent Japanese study found that people who drank a daily 11-ounce bottle of green tea lost 5.3 pounds after three months, while those who drank regular tea lost only 2.9 pounds. If you find green tea too bitter, consider one of the new green teas flavored with fruit essences. Most have no calories and just the right kiss of sweetness, says Blatner.

Diet Plans, Supermarket Know-How

4. Dust Off the Grapefruit Diet
Eating three servings of grapefruit a day (either half of a whole one or a cup of juice) for 12 weeks could help you lose just over three pounds, according to a recent study. “It helped lower insulin levels, which can contribute to weight loss by reducing appetite and encouraging fat burning,” explains study author Ken Fujioka, MD, director of nutrition and metabolic research at Scripps Clinic in Del Mar, California.

5. Pack in the Protein
A University of Washington study found that doubling up on protein could help you eat less without feeling hungry. “Protein may make your brain more sensitive to leptin, a hormone that helps you feel full,” says study author Scott Weigle, MD, a professor of endocrinology at the University of Washington School of Medicine. Make sure at least a third of each meal and snack is a source of lean protein.

6. Shop Around, Literally
The center aisles of your local supermarket are loaded with highly processed, sugary, and fatty foods. “The first couple of outer aisles is where you’ll find all the fresh produce, dairy, and seafood,” explains Oz Garcia, PhD, a nutritionist in New York City.

7. Buy To-Go Veggies
“Most of the vegetables in your fridge should be as easy to pop into your mouth as a potato chip, which means they should be precut and prewashed,” says Bethany Thayer, RD, a spokesperson for the American Dietetic Association. Same goes for fruit. “And keep them at eye level in your fridge, so they’ll be staring you right in the face when you open the door.”

8. Get Some Sleep
People who sleep seven to eight hours per night are leaner than those who get only five or six hours, according to research from Laval University in Quebec. “When you’re sleep-deprived, your body produces more stress hormones, which may increase your appetite,” explains Michael Breus, PhD, cofounder of Sound Sleep Solutions in Atlanta. Having trouble nodding off? Consider hitting the treadmill before, not after, work: One study done at Seattle’s Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center found that women who exercised in the a.m. fell asleep faster at night than those who did a p.m. workout.

9. Shop from a List
“Never go to the grocery store without a master list, which provides insurance against impulse buys,” suggests Donald Hensrud, MD, an obesity specialist at the Mayo Clinic. And never, ever shop when you’re hungry.

10. Stock Up on Frozen Shrimp
“I always have a bag or two in my freezer,” says Ellie Krieger, RD, a New York City nutritionist and author of Small Changes, Big Results (Clarkson Potter, 2005). “I add them to stir-fries and pasta or sometimes just serve them with cocktail sauce as a snack.” Bonus: At 84 calories per three-ounce serving, shrimp has about a third the calories of chicken and about half that of sirloin. Food snobs, take note: Frozen shrimp is often fresher than “fresh” because it’s frozen just after it’s caught.

Snack Sizes, Cooking Tips, Calorie Savers

11. Count to 100
These days, everything from potato chips to yogurt to ice cream is being rolled out in 100-calorie snack sizes. “You may have to pay more than if you bought an economy size bag, but the smaller portions mean you’ll end up eating less,” says Barbara Rolls, PhD, a professor of nutritional sciences at Pennsylvania State University.

12. Look What Brown Can Do for You
“Instead of refined and processed white foods, aim to have whole-grain starches such as brown rice, whole wheat pasta, whole wheat breads and bran cereals,” says Blatner. For the most part, the browner the food, the higher the fiber, which spells w-e-i-g-h-t l-o-s-s. According to a 2005 research review, increasing consumption of dietary fiber is critical to losing weight, because it helps you feel fuller and decreases absorption of calories from other food sources. Some easy adds: Sprinkle two tablespoons of a high-fiber cereal such as Kellogg’s All-Bran Bran Buds into your yogurt (5 grams); substitute whole-grain bread for white in your turkey sandwich (2 grams), and throw a half cup of white beans on top of your salad (6 grams).

13. Revisit Your Skillet
Successful dieters eat out fewer than two and a half meals per week on average, according to the National Weight Control Registry. If you’re strapped for time, simply nuke a frozen dinner. A recent University of Illinois study found that dieters who followed a meal program that included two frozen entrees a day lost more weight than those who followed the USDA Food Guide pyramid. “Frozen dinners serve as a form of portion control, so you don’t overeat,” explains Dr. Hensrud. Look for entrees with fewer than 400 calories each: Lean Cuisine, Weight Watchers, and Uncle Ben’s Rice Bowls are all good choices.

14. Have a V8 While You Cook
“I’ve had clients come in complaining that they can’t lose weight, but then I find out that they’re taking in hundreds of calories while preparing dinner,” says Blatner. “Every little ‘taste’ counts!” Her tip? Sip a Low Sodium V8 juice. “It’s only 50 calories per serving, but it will keep you feeling satisfied and stave off hunger pains so you’re less inclined to snack,” she explains. (The new Calcium Enriched V8 makes it easier to protect your bones, but that’s another story!) Hate V8? Chew gum to keep your mouth occupied.

15. Switch to Salsa
“I have clients spoon it on everything — baked potatoes, veggies, even chicken or salmon,” says Thayer. “It’s a serving of veggies that gives otherwise bland diet staples a little flavor and zest.” The calorie savings are worth it: Two tablespoons of salsa instead of sour cream on a baked potato, for example, saves 42 calories and five fat grams.

16. Feel the Heat
“When food is warm, its molecules move around faster, which means it will have a stronger smell,” explains Alan Hirsch, MD, director of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago. The result: The aroma affects the satiety center in your brain, leading you to think that you’ve eaten more than you have, so you feel full faster. In addition, if your food is hot, you’ll be forced to eat it more slowly, which will give your stomach time to signal to your brain that it’s full.

Craving Cut-Downs, Taste-Bud Distractions

17. Brush It Off
Brush your teeth or rinse your mouth right after you have a meal or a snack to quell the urge to keep nibbling. “It’s both a physical and a psychological signal to your body that you’re done eating,” says Blatner.

18. Name That Craving
“One reason women overeat is that they don’t hit their food craving right on the head — they keep bingeing until they’re finally satisfied,” explains Blatner. Ask yourself what you really want: Salty? Sweet? Smooth? Crunchy? “Food cravings can be broken down into four categories,” says Blatner. “If you are craving sweet and crunchy, try a mini bag of popcorn mixed with a little bit of artificial sweetener or even sugar. If you want sweet and creamy, opt for a light vanilla yogurt. If you’re thinking about something salty and smooth, try a couple of pieces of low-fat string cheese; if you really want salty and crunchy, try a handful of dry-roasted nuts or soy nuts.”

19. Fill Your Glass
Optimists are more likely to eat fiber-rich foods such as fresh veggies, salad, and fruit, and less likely to be overweight, according to a Finnish study published in the journal Appetite. “Eating right and exercising seems to be second nature for them,” explains Bruce Rabin, MD, PhD, medical director of the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center’s Healthy Lifestyle Program. Happily, it is possible to shake away your pessimism. “The next time a negative thought pops into your head, force yourself to come up with something positive to replace it,” says Dr. Rabin. If you practice this often enough, it will eventually become an automatic response.

20. K.I.S.S. (Keep it Simple, Sweetie!)
People who eat a variety of foods, even low-fat ones, are more likely to have trouble keeping weight off than those who rely on a few diet staples, according to a National Weight Control Registry study published last May. “When people have a wide range of foods in front of them, they generally eat more,” explains study author Holly Raynor, PhD, RD, an assistant professor of psychiatry and human behavior at Brown Medical School/the Miriam Hospital. The study showed that the most successful weight losers consistently consume just three to five staples from each food group, switching them around occasionally to prevent boredom.

21. Distract Your Taste Buds
Visions of Godiva flooding your head? Before you rush out to buy a box, try deflecting your attention. New research from Flinders University in Adelaide, Australia, has found that the more vivid your mental image of a particular food, the more likely you are to crave it. But there’s plenty you can do to tone down those visual cues. Researchers found that randomly flicking through images on a computer screen or, to a lesser extent, listening to a speech in a foreign language, was enough to distract students from their food cravings. Anything that engages both your eyes and your mind — like playing Sudoku — should help, say researchers.

I still have the bad fats as well, just not as often as i used to, and i make sure most of what i have is the good stuff

Myth No. 1: Don’t eat after 8 p.m.
The Theory: You burn up the food you eat earlier in the day, while late-night calories sit in your system and turn into fat.

The Reality: Calories can’t tell time. “Your body digests and uses calories the same way morning, noon, and night,” says Mary Flynn, Ph.D., a research dietitian at the Miriam Hospital, in Providence. They may sit around a little longer if you eat, then lie on the couch and watch Letterman, but when you move around the next day, your body will dip into its stores. That said, there are other solid reasons to avoid late-night snacking, not least of which is that snacks you grab when you’re tired tend to be unhealthy ones.

The Best Advice: If you often unwind before bed with a bowl of ice cream or buttered popcorn, try cutting the snack out. The calories saved may be enough for you to lose a few pounds a year. If you’re hungry, “eat something on the light side, like a piece of fruit or some cereal with milk,” says Ellie Krieger, a registered dietitian and the author of The Food You Crave (Taunton, $28., Amazon.com). Night eaters tend to overeat (which leads to weight gain no matter when it’s done) because often they’ve been skimping during the day and come home famished. Being so hungry that you grab whatever is at hand means you’re more likely to make poor choices. “Don’t go longer than about five hours without eating,” says Jo Ann Hattner, a registered dietitian and a nutrition consultant in San Francisco. Just be careful to keep your meals and snacks small.

Myth No. 2: Eating small, frequent meals boosts your metabolism.
The Theory: If you keep adding small amounts of food to your fire (the fire being your metabolism), you will keep it going strong and burn more calories overall.

The Reality: Food intake has a negligible effect on metabolism. Some foods, including those with caffeine, may slightly and temporarily increase metabolism, but the effect is too small to help you lose weight. What most affects your basal metabolic rate (BMR), the rate at which your body burns calories at rest, is body composition and size. More muscles and bigger bodies generally burn more calories overall.

The Best Advice: Build up your muscles. A pound of fat-free tissue burns about 14 calories a day, while a pound of fat burns just two to three calories. And while that difference may not sound like a lot, it will certainly help over time. Remember, too, that when you lose pounds, part of that weight is muscle, warns Liz Neporent, an exercise physiologist and the president of Wellness 360, a New York City–based corporate-wellness-consulting company. That’s why strength training is even more important if you’re on a weight-loss mission. Try the seven-exercise Muscle Maintenance Workout. And if you hate lifting weights, you can instead maintain your muscles by going to a Pilates, body-sculpting, or power-yoga class two to three times a week.

Myth No. 3: Pasta makes you fat.
The Theory: When you eat carbohydrates, your body turns them into sugars, which are then stored as fat.

The Reality: Carbohydrates per se don’t make you fat; extra calories do, whether you eat them in the form of carbs, fats, or protein. Besides, carbohydrates include vegetables, fruits, and whole grains, which are important parts of a healthy diet. In short, the problem isn’t pasta but the sheer volume consumed. “Americans tend to eat too much carbohydrates, fat, and protein. But they overeat carbs most of all,” says Barbara Moore, Ph.D., a nutritionist in Clyde Park, Montana, and a spokesperson for the American Society for Nutrition. “You go to a restaurant and you’re served three cups of pasta with lots of sauce.” Those three cups of pasta can pack up to 600 calories without the sauce.

The Best Advice: Pasta in moderation is fine. Dietitians recommend two or three ounces of uncooked noodles per person — or half of a one-pound box to serve a family of four. This may look like a puny amount, but try thinking of “pasta as an ingredient, rather than as the basis of a dish,” says Mark Bittman, author of How to Cook Everything Vegetarian (Wiley, $35, Amazon.com). “Start with a lot of grilled or sautéed vegetables and maybe a tomato-based sauce. Then add some pasta, sparingly.” If you want protein, add beans, chicken, or shellfish. (For some delicious pasta dishes, see Healthy Pasta Recipes. Make your pasta — or bread or rice or cereal — whole-grain, which has more vitamins and minerals than white pasta. You’ll also be getting fiber, which helps you feel full.

Myth No. 4: Coffee can help you lose weight.
The Theory: The caffeine in coffee acts as an appetite suppressant and a metabolism booster.

The Reality: While coffee may temporarily squelch your appetite, drinking a couple of cups a day won’t have enough of an effect to help you lose weight. Besides, pouring too much coffee into your system — drinking, say, four to seven cups a day — may lead to anxiety, sleeplessness, and an increase in heart rate and blood pressure.

The Best Advice: Enjoy a cup or two of coffee (or tea) every day, if you please. Just be sure that if you add anything to the brew — like cream, sugar, or cocoa powder — you take those calories into account. For example, a 16-ounce Starbucks café mocha can contain a whopping 330 calories (60 more than some chocolate bars). What’s more, those calories might not make you feel as full as the same number of calories eaten in solid form.

Another coffee concern: sleep disruption, which new evidence reveals is linked to weight control. “Every time people feel tired, they think, I have to have a latte,” says Liz Applegate, Ph.D., director of sports nutrition at the University of California, Davis. “They become addicted to caffeine on a higher level, and it takes four to six hours to clear out of the system. Sleep is not as good, and you’re tired the next day.” And probably hungrier, too. At least two studies have shown that when people are sleep-deprived, they produce more of the hormone ghrelin, an appetite stimulant, and less leptin, an appetite suppressant. Not to mention that your resistance to the doughnut’s siren song is a whole lot lower when you’re pooped.

Myth No. 5: Milk can help you lose weight.
The Theory: Calcium helps the body break down fat more efficiently, stimulating weight loss.

The Reality: Dairy doesn’t appear to have magic properties. A few studies from the mid-2000s concluded that dieters who consumed dairy lost more weight than dieters who did not. But other studies showed no effect, and still others showed a link between high milk consumption and eating more calories.

The Best Advice: Go ahead and eat dairy products, but stick with low-fat versions, which are lower in both calories and unhealthy saturated fats.

Milk products are loaded with calcium, of course, but how much calcium you need is a matter of debate. The government recommends at least 1,000 milligrams of calcium for adults under 50 years old (about the amount in three cups of milk) and 1,200 milligrams for people over 50; however, the Harvard School of Public Health holds that no one really knows the healthiest, safest amount of calcium that adults should consume. If dairy products don’t agree with you, you can get calcium from fortified soy milk; fortified orange juice; dark green, leafy vegetables, such as kale and collard greens; and certain fish, such as canned salmon.

Myth No. 6: Going on a diet is the best way to lose weight.
The Theory: Switching to a prescriptive plan temporarily is the smartest way to drop pounds.

The Reality: Short-term, you do lose weight on any plan that results in your eating fewer calories. But temporary changes don’t lead to permanent losses. “A diet won’t work if you think of it as doing a different thing for a while and then you’re going to stop doing it,” says Christopher Gardner, an assistant professor of nutritional science at Stanford University School of Medicine. “If you have a new way of eating and think, I’m going to eat like this forever, that’s the way to lose weight.” And keep it off.

The Best Advice: Don’t go on a “diet” — a quick fix that begins on New Year’s Day or before bathing-suit season. Instead, change the way you eat. Find a satisfying eating plan that you can live with long-term, and make sure you’re eating the right amount of calories for weight loss. Then, when you’ve taken off some weight, don’t go back to eating as much as you did before you cut calories. “To maintain a lighter weight, you have to eat a little less than you did to maintain your heavier weight before,” says Gardner.

Besides, dieting alone won’t work as well as dieting plus exercise — a little bit of exercise, or maybe a lot. Since 1994 the National Weight Control Registry has followed and analyzed the habits of successful weight losers (defined as people who have maintained at least a 30-pound weight loss for a year or more). Among its findings: Those who kept weight off exercised — with brisk walking or some other moderate-intensity activity — an average of one hour a day. “One of the most important aspects of weight maintenance is a high dose of physical activity,” says Rena Wing, Ph.D., a cofounder of the registry and a professor of psychiatry and human behavior at the Warren Alpert Medical School, at Brown University.

Myth No. 7: Eating protein and carbs at different meals will help you lose weight.
The Theory: Protein and carbohydrates require different enzymes for digestion; if you eat the two separately, you improve digestion and further weight loss.

The Reality: Your digestive tract can handle a variety of food groups at the same time. There is no proof that eating protein and carbohydrates separately aids digestion or weight loss, says nutritionist Christopher Gardner. Indeed, it’s healthier to combine protein and fiber-filled carbs than to separate them. “The pairing of protein and fiber is what fills you up the most and gives you the most energy,” says Elisa Zied, a New York City–based registered dietitian and a spokesperson for the American Dietetic Association. “An apple is good, but an apple with peanut butter is more filling.” Also, some of the best foods for you — nuts, seeds, legumes — are made up of both protein and carbohydrates. “To people who say that you should separate protein and carbohydrates, I say, ‘Why did God make beans?’” says dietitian Ellie Krieger.

The Best Advice: Eat protein along with carbs, but choose with care. The best protein choices are lean meats, poultry, low-fat dairy products, and tofu, because they have little (if any) saturated fat. The best carbs are whole grains, fruits, and vegetables, which offer more health benefits than refined grains. “Those foods take longer to absorb, so there’s a slower release into the body and a more steady energy source,” says Hope Barkoukis, an assistant professor of nutrition at Case Western Reserve University, in Cleveland.

Myth No. 8: To lose weight, you need to cut calories drastically.
The Theory: Eat much less; weigh much less.

The Reality: Sure, if you subsist on 1,200 calories a day, you’ll take off weight, but it won’t be for long. Consider an analysis of 31 studies of long-term diets, where the diets averaged 1,200 calories a day. The report, published last April in American Psychologist, found that within four to five years, the majority of dieters in these studies regained the weight they had lost. “Psychologically, it’s difficult for people to adhere to strict diets over a long period because they feel deprived and hungry,” says Traci Mann, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Minnesota, in Minneapolis, and the lead author of the report. “Also, our bodies are brilliant at keeping us alive when we try to starve them.” Your body becomes more efficient at using the calories you consume, so you need fewer to survive. In addition, people who are put on a very-low-calorie diet (800 calories a day) have an increased risk of developing gallstones and digestive issues.

The Best Advice: Don’t starve yourself. “If you want to lose weight and keep it off forever, you need a modest calorie restriction that you simply continue and never stop,” says nutritionist Christopher Gardner. But what’s the right number of calories for you? Use this easy formula, a favorite of cardiologist Thomas Lee, editor in chief of the Harvard Heart Letter.

First find your activity level on the table below. Multiply your weight by the number indicated. (You may fall between two categories. If that’s the case, adjust the number by adding a point or so.) The result is the number of calories you need to maintain your weight. Let’s say you weigh 135 pounds and do light exercise one to three days a week. Multiply 135 by 13.5 to get, approximately, 1,800 calories. If you want to drop some pounds, try cutting out 250 calories a day, says Lee. In a year, if you make no other changes, you could be 26 pounds lighter. Exercise more and you could lose more, too.

And Your Number Is… ^{(please note that the weight measurements on this page are in US pounds)}
You Exercise: Almost never
Multiply Your Current Weight By: 12

You Exercise: Lightly, one to three days a week
Multiply Your Current Weight By: 13.5

You Exercise: Moderately, three to five days a week
Multiply Your Current Weight By: 15.5

You Exercise: Vigorously, six to seven days a week
Multiply Your Current Weight By: 17

You Exercise: Vigorously, daily, and you have a physical job
Multiply Your Current Weight By: 19

Myth No. 9: Diet foods help you diet.
The Theory: Low-fat, low-carb, and artificially sweetened packaged foods make losing weight painless.

The Reality: Low-fat and low-carb don’t always mean low-cal, and if you’re trying to lose weight, stocking up on these treats could undermine your efforts. In a series of recent studies, for instance, participants ate up to 50 percent more of foods that the researchers falsely labeled “low-fat” than they did of the same exact foods with real labels. “Consumers expect that low-fat M&M’s contain 20 percent fewer calories than their regular counterparts,” concluded the authors of the studies, Brian Wansink, Ph.D., and Pierre Chandon, Ph.D., in the Journal of Marketing Research, in November 2006. “Importantly, as a result, they expect that comparable increases in serving sizes are justified.” Some experts also believe that consuming artificial sweeteners might backfire. Two long-term studies looking at the drinking habits of thousands of people have found a correlation between drinking diet soda and being overweight.

The Best Advice: When you’re tempted by a snack food that’s labeled “light” or “low-fat,” check the nutrition label. Look at how many calories are in a serving, then compare that number with the calories in a comparable product that’s not making a label claim. And then consider having just a small amount of the real thing. You may end up consuming fewer calories with, say, a full-fat product than you would with a low-fat version, because fat tends to be more satisfying. And take care that you don’t decide — consciously or not — that substituting a diet soda for a full-sugar one gives you license to eat a box of Valentine’s chocolates instead.

Myth No. 10: Eating fat makes you fat.
The Theory: Fat has nine calories per gram, whereas carbs and protein have only four per gram, so to lose weight you have to avoid fat.

The Reality: Fat is not the enemy. Although fat-laden products can be full of calories, a modest amount of fat may help you feel full (so you eat less overall) and make healthy foods, like vegetables, taste better (so you may eat more of them). Fat also helps with the absorption of certain vitamins and phytonutrients, which are compounds in plants that are thought to promote health.

The Best Advice: Eat fat, but don’t go overboard. And think about which fats you do eat, as some are better for you than others. Choose monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats, found in liquid oils such as canola, safflower, and olive; most nuts; and fish. These fats don’t raise blood cholesterol levels and may reduce your risk of cardiovascular disease. The fats to limit or avoid are saturated fats, found mainly in beef and dairy products, and trans fats, which are in a lot of packaged foods, fried fast foods, and margarine. These are no more caloric than the good fats, but they are less healthful, as they increase the risk of heart disease. The Institute of Medicine, which advises the government on scientific matters, including health, recommends that when it comes to saturated fat, cholesterol, and trans fats, you eat as little as possible. If we’ve learned anything as we’ve swung from low-fat to low-carb and back again, it’s this: There’s no need to eat dry salad or forgo any food you adore. Most everything in moderation will keep your weight where it belongs.

The problem is that either your body gets used to the diet and exercise you’re doing or you are eating too few calories.

Try changing your exercise so instead of running you are swimming, or cycling or whatever, and for a couple of weeks raise your calories a few hundred so they are still below what you use, but not as far.

If this isnt working then perhaps you need to check what you are eating more carefully. Is it good food? or a lot of take aways?
Do you have all the vitamins you need? or are you missing out on some?

I found usually i get bored with whatever exercise im doing within a couple months and naturally just change it to something else. In the 7 months ive been dieting i havnt really hit any major plateaus yet. My diet changes all the time and the exercise.
However being a female i HAVE noticed that i do not loose weight the week prior to menstration, and i will drop twice as much the week after (probably just all water retention).

Again and again I have heard people saying they were eating really low calories and exercising heaps and still not loosing weight, and couldn’t break the plateau. What it comes down to is kidding and lieing to yourself, or not measuring exactly.

Recheck with scales and measuring items the food, and stop counting your exercise calories so high, i have found most HR monitors seriously over estimate the calories used and inaccurate.